I am not a doctor this is just our experience. If you suspect a problem please see your doctor.
“You must head immediately to the MUSC Children’s Emergency Room.”
There is nothing like that statement to completely flip your emotions out of control. It feels like you have been sucked down a tunnel and you can see the doctor speaking but you feel like hear what is her or she is saying because you are down in a black tunnel and are getting scared.
Let’s back up to how this all began.
I have twin boys. They are identical and are our oldest kids. My pregnancy was smooth and I had absolutely no issues. This could be due to the fact that I quit my job 6 months into my pregnancy and basically put myself on couch rest. 😉 They induced me at 38 weeks and they were perfect. Well, for at least the first 4 weeks.
Between weeks 3 and 4 they started throwing up about 15 minutes after being fed. Sometimes a little bit and sometimes a lot. My husband and I thought they just weren’t being burped properly. We would sit after their feeding and try burping them for an hour or more and they would still throw up a lot. There is a great picture of my husband just when he walked in from work in his work clothes and he basically picked up one of our boys and they instantly threw up all over him. I just laughed because I was being thrown up on all day long.
I took them to the pediatrician for vomiting and was given infant reflux medicine. It did not help.
It started to progress to projectile vomiting about week 5. I am talking that when you would be burping them after a feeding they would throw up and it would come flying out. If they were facing outwards it would shoot out onto the floor. Sometimes, if you were lucky, it wouldn’t even get on your or the babies clothes.
We were very lucky that we had twins. When it started getting very bad and the projectile vomiting was happening after every single feeding for one of the boys over the course of the weekend we could tell that he had lost weight when we laid them next to each other. It was very obvious since they had been the same size. I took them to our pediatrician and he immediately picked up that it was Pyloric Stenosis and said those words. “Head to the Emergency Room straight from here, I’ll call ahead and tell them you are coming”.
How to know if it is Pyloric Stenosis (via Mayo Clinic)
- Vomiting after feeding/Projectile Vomiting – we had a lot of this going on
- Persistent Hunger – they were hungry all the time
- Stomach Contractions – I didn’t notice this
- Dehydration – I couldn’t tell
- Change in bowel movement – I didn’t even notice this
- Weight problems – This is what finally alerted me that there was a problem.
I am also adding a #7 because it is also well-known that Pyloric Stenosis happens more often in 1st born males. It can happen to others too but it is more likely in first-born males for some reason so add that to your list Mayo Clinic. 🙂
All of these symptoms appear in weeks 3 – 5 of an infant’s life and peak at week 6. No one older than 3 months has it so if your baby is over 12 weeks it is most likely not pyloric stenosis. I need to say again to see your doctor if you are worried because I definitely do not have a medical degree.
Now, the good news. To find out for sure if a baby has Pyloric Stenosis takes an ultrasound. I was happy it wasn’t a blood test or something that would hurt them. Just a quick ultrasound on each of my boys stomachs confirmed that they both had it.
Pyloric Stenosis is when the stomach muscle is enlarged and blocks food from passing from the stomach into the intestines. The surgery consists of cutting the muscle to make a channel for food to pass.
Next we were admitted to the hospital and waited for a room. The next 24 hours were the worst ever!! We were admitted to the hospital after waiting for all the ultrasound results about 4:00pm. We had not fed the boys since 10:00 am because if they were going to have surgery that day they couldn’t eat. Then we got the news that they couldn’t fit us into surgery until the next morning. And we couldn’t feed our boys all night. That meant 24 hours of not feeding our boys. Those boys cried and cried for 24 hours. It was awful. We would dip their pacifiers in some sugar water some nurses gave us and that helped a little bit. Sometimes a different nurse would come in and say they weren’t allowed sugar water and took all our little cups. Then the next nurse would come in and said we could use them so from then on we got smart and took a bunch of sugar water (they have a special package of it in pediatric units) and started hiding them so that other nurses wouldn’t know that we had them. 🙂 We were in desperate shape with crying 6 week old twin babies for 24 hours. It was not fun.
After that night our boys never took a pacifier again.
No one knows what causes Pyloric Stenosis and the fact that we had identical twins that both had it made us the room to go to for the medical students at MUSC. All evening we had groups of students and doctors coming into the room talking about our issue. The fact that they were identical twins and both had it and that maybe this would prove that it is a genetic issue. One of them even said they would bet a paper would be written about the boys. Matt and I didn’t really care about all of this. We were both leaning over separate cribs dealing with crying babies.
Surgery for Pyloric Stenosis
Early the next morning the surgeons assistant or PA came running up to our rooms and said, “Someone is late for their surgery we have the operating room open now, let’s go!!” The nurses wanted her to wait for the people to wheel our boys in the beds down the hall. I guess that’s the official/proper way to go. Our PA told the nurses no, we have no time we are leaving now and she carried one and I carried the other and we basically ran down the halls to get to the OR first. 🙂 I was so glad that someone else had run into traffic or something so we were able to get the earlier time slot.
The rush made it a little easier to not be completely freaked out that our boys were having surgery. I swear that it seemed to take less than 15 mins and they were in recovery and I was able to go see them.
Surgery for Pyloric Stenosis is done laporascopically. My boys are 8 now and I only see the tiny spots because I know where to look but they wouldn’t even be able to pick out the spots if I didn’t show them.
I found a short 10 second video I had taken of one of the boys when we brought them home that shows their tiny incisions. spitting-up-after-bath
Recovery for Pyloric Stenosis
The completely amazing thing to me about the surgery is that once they cut the muscle it is completely fixed! There is no recovery or special feeding issues afterwards at all. We just fed them like normal and they were all fixed. That was very strange to me that after a traumatic 24 hours we walked out of the hospital with nothing special to do. Totally crazy. There was no medicine to give them or anything. We went home and just went about our lives again like nothing had happened.
Really Pyloric Stenosis is a crazy thing to deal with as it is a few weeks of horrible throwing up but it is fixed with a quick surgery and there are no problems afterwards.
If you are facing this diagnosis I hope this helps. Please feel free to email me or comment with any other questions if you need some support.
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Debra says
This is so scary and seems so easy to overlook. I had never even heard of it before. I am so glad that you were able to get it taken care of.
Carolyn says
Thank you. They are super healthy now. So glad it wasn’t something that would affect them for the rest of their lives.
Mariana says
Hi Carolyn
I am Mariana i saw your post
So my baby girl just had a surgery pyloric stenosis
I was wondering to know after surgery how long she will burp little more than a regular and also she is caughing did you meet that symptom? Before surgery she was caughing and vomit together but right now she just caughing and just a little wet burp . Today is the 2 day
Will wait
Thank you ☺️
Theresa says
I’m so sorry. This must be really hard to go through! I know someone who has a similar issue, and it is very tough on them to watch their little ones having a hard day.
Taylor MObley says
How scary!! I am SO glad you were able to get it taken care of! I would hate to have that go unchecked. Although it would be pretty hard to ignore projectile vomit!
OurFamilyWorld says
Aw, poor boys. I have never heard of this before. I can imagine the dilemma of not feeding them for 24 hours.
Carolyn says
I had never heard of it either until I was googling like crazy and reading through all the baby books trying to figure out what was wrong.
Ana says
God the poor things having to have had surgery at such a young age. It sounds horrible, thank you for making light of the issue especially as many parents might not have heard of it.
Jennifer says
We never had to deal with pyloric stenosis, but our youngest was a reflux baby. Not a fun thing to deal with, and I felt so bad for him. I know this post will help many Moms and Dads out there, so kudos to you!
Sheri @ A Busy Bees Life says
This is very scary for any mom, and especially for a new one like me! I think this is a great read for all moms, new and old, plus expecting mothers. Will share this on Pinterest.
Carolyn says
Thanks so much!
Terri Steffes says
I was glued to your story! I think this is something that should be in every first born son’s handbook! 🙂 Thanks for sharing your experiences.
Suzanne Spiegoski says
I’ve never heard of pyloric stenosis before! What a great and informative read, you must’ve been pretty scared! Glad the twins are healthy as ever 🙂
Kendall Rayburn says
Oh, wow – I completely know this feeling. We had it last Christmas with my son. It’s just so scary when you hear anything like that from a doctor.
Carolyn says
Funny how you never hear about it until you have to deal with it and then all of sudden people say “Oh, yea we had that or my friend’s baby had that.”.
Karen Coghlan says
Your post makes me want to know more about this, you mention what it is called but I guess I missed what it does besides causing vomiting.. I guess what I am asking is what did the surgery do? It is a lot to go though with one baby cant image having two…
Carolyn says
Your right. I didn’t go into the details. It is caused by the muscle between the stomach and intestines closing. It takes surgery and the surgeon cutting the muscle open and then it is good as new. It is so strange to me. Especially that there isn’t really a recovery…shouldn’t that need a special formula or just barely letting them eat for a while? But it doesn’t, weird.
Whitney S. says
Oh wow! I’ve never heard of this before. It seems really scary. I’m glad you were able to get it taken care of!
Donah says
Oh my, this is indeed very scary and would probably send me into panic. My little guy had reflux (projectile vomiting and all) before and that alone really worried me to death!
Carolyn says
Yes, it is hard to know when projectile vomiting is really Pyloric Stenosis but a big clue is fast weight loss. I hope you all got through your reflux ok. Does he still have it?
Robin Rue says
I have never heard of this before. Thanks for opening my eyes up to this. This whole experience sounds like it was frightening.
Carli says
This is the exact thing I am currently going through. The stories are almost identical except I have one child. My little guy is currently recovering. I was also told that it is caused by the change of hormones. When baby boy’s hormones transition from mom’s to his own male hormones, and that’s why it doesn’t happen immediately but at about weeks 4-6. I’m not sure exactly how that correlates to first born boys but apparently it does.
Carolyn says
Wow, that’s so interesting about the hormones. It’s good to know a little more about why it happens. I am so glad your little one is recovering.
heather says
Your list mentions a change in bowel movements. What is the change? Can you be more specific? Our first born son just started throwing up out of nowhere (not even 2 weeks old yet) and I’m wondering if it’s this. It has me afraid to feed him. We’ve thought it was eating too much and not burping well enough and getting too worked up when we change him, but it’s all a hypothesis right now. Would love more details on the symptom. Thanks!
Arlene detweiler says
My oldest son also had pyloric stenosis and my story is practically identical! It’s definitely no fun!! So happy they could fix it and we’ll never have to deal with it again!!
Carolyn says
Sorry you had to go through that too!! Glad it is an easy fix..although scary!
Justine says
This is out of the blue, but say my dads father had pyloric stenosis. Then my dad has a third baby which is Jenny a girl and she’s born with it. Is it possible for my kids to have it even though I was not born with it?
Carolyn says
From my research it is pretty rare but even if they have it it is totally fixable. I would just be aware to watch for constant projectile vomiting from about 4-6 weeks old.